The Healthy Love Vision Calculator

1. Top 3 Non-Negotiable Values

Select up to 3:

Respect Emotional Safety Growth Communication Kindness Honesty Loyalty Passion Fun Independence

2. What do you need most from a partner? (Pick one)

I need someone who builds me up and reminds me I matter I need someone who actually listens and gets how I feel I need someone who makes time for me and puts effort in I need someone who helps and shows up for me when it counts I need someone who’s affectionate and makes me feel wanted

3. Do you recognise any pattern that you want to break?

I keep going for people who are emotionally unavailable I lose myself in relationships and forget who I am I give everything and don’t get the same back I pull away or panic when things start getting serious I settle because I’m scared I won’t find better

4. What would you love in a future partner?

Playful and adventurous Deep and emotionally connected Balanced with shared goals Spiritually aligned Supportive and growth-oriented

5. What are your hard dealbreakers?

Poor communication Disrespect or belittling Avoidant attachment Inconsistency or ghosting Unresolved past trauma Lack of ambition or purpose

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