You joined Magnetic AF because something in you knew you were ready for things to be different.
Maybe you wanted to stop chasing people who weren't choosing you.
Maybe you were tired of rejection knocking your confidence for six.
Maybe you'd had enough of meeting different people and somehow ending up in the same relationship.
Or maybe you just wanted to feel more confident, trust yourself more and start believing that good things could happen to you too.
For 21 days, you've been doing exactly that.
But I don't want you to stop here.
Because 21 days can show you what's possible.
12 months can change the way you live your life.
Apply For Healthy Love Academy →Only 10 spaces. Applications are personally reviewed.
Led by Sam Morris: former UK Probation Officer, trained in relationship risk assessment, and coach to 1,000+ people rebuilding self-trust, boundaries, and healthier relationships. This is not dating advice from the sidelines. It is practical coaching informed by years spent studying behaviour, risk, patterns, and why people tolerate what they know is hurting them.
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Magnetic AF Was Never The Destination.
It was proof. Proof that you can change. Proof that the way you think, behave, choose and respond isn't fixed.
Maybe you've noticed yourself catching a thought you would previously have believed.
Maybe you've held a boundary.
Maybe you've stopped yourself chasing.
Maybe rejection hasn't felt quite so personal.
Maybe you've started asking yourself what you actually want rather than whether somebody else wants you.
Maybe you've noticed changes that have absolutely nothing to do with dating.
That's what happens when you start changing the person making the decisions.
But here's what I don't want you to do now.
Go back.
Back to knowing what you should do but not actually doing it.
Back to accepting crumbs because you really like them.
Back to ignoring your gut.
Back to mistaking inconsistency for chemistry.
Back to letting somebody else's rejection become evidence that there is something wrong with you.
Back to spending another year understanding your patterns without actually changing them.
Magnetic AF wasn't designed to undo everything you've experienced in your life in 21 days.
It was designed to show you something incredibly important.
You are capable of changing it.
Healthy Love Academy is where we keep going.
Imagine This Time Next Year.
Not next week. Not after one more date. A year from now.
Imagine meeting somebody you really like… and not losing yourself in them.
You don't need five friends to analyse their text.
You don't spend your Sunday wondering why they've been online but haven't replied.
You don't convince yourself that their inconsistency is because they're "just busy."
You don't abandon your standards because you're frightened nobody else will come along.
You don't make rejection mean "See. Nobody ever chooses me."
And when someone kind, emotionally available and consistent comes along…
You don't immediately decide there isn't enough chemistry because your nervous system is waiting for chaos.
You can actually recognise healthy love. Receive it. And build it.
Because finding the right person is only part of this. You also need to know what to do when you find them.
These are skills.
And far too many of us were never taught them.
The Healthy love academy world
This Isn't Another Course About Your Attachment Style.
Because this was never really about information. It's what sits underneath it.
And years of experience that taught your brain what love is supposed to feel like.
That's the work we do inside Healthy Love Academy.
Said:
Engaged!!!
Sarah came into HLA tired of second-guessing, overgiving, and accepting inconsistency. Over time, she learned to trust herself, stop chasing mixed signals, and choose people who felt safe. She is now engaged.
how amazing she is!
Julie's biggest change was not a dating tactic. It was learning to stop making other people's behaviour evidence about who she was. That changed how she showed up in relationships, friendships, and her own life.
And You've Already Had A Little Taste Of What The Right Room Can Do.
119 of you who will see this page have already been part of the Magnetic AF group.
So you've seen it. You've seen somebody share something they were struggling with and other people say:
"ME TOO."
You've watched somebody have a win and found yourself feeling more hopeful because if it happened for them, maybe it could happen for you.
You've had accountability. Encouragement. Different perspectives.
You've watched other people ask questions you didn't even realise you needed answering.
And perhaps you've noticed that when you're surrounded by people who are actively trying to change their lives… it's much easier to keep changing yours.
That's one of the reasons HLA is a mastermind rather than simply another programme.
Because there is something incredibly powerful about being in a room with people who know your story, want you to win and won't let you keep telling yourself the same old rubbish.
And over 12 months? Those people don't just become names in a group.
They become your people.
Meet Your Guide
Meet Sam Morris
I've spent most of my career studying what happens when relationships go very wrong.
Before becoming a coach, I worked as a UK Probation Officer with people convicted of serious domestic abuse and sexual offences.
I've trained professionals in risk assessment. I've studied relationships, behaviour, patterns, confidence and what makes people tolerate things they know aren't right.
But I haven't only seen unhealthy relationships from the professional side. I've lived them.
Which means I'm not going to sit here and tell you to "just love yourself" and send you away with a journal.
I want you to understand yourself. Heal what needs healing. And then practise something different.
I've now supported more than 1,000 people through my work.
And the thing I want for you isn't simply a relationship.
I want you to create a life that feels so bloody good that the person entering it has to add to it, not rescue you from it.
That's Healthy Love Academy.
So What Are We Actually Changing?
We're working towards something much bigger than getting you more dates. You're going to become someone who:
- Trusts themselves.
- Doesn't crumble at rejection.
- Holds a boundary without three days of guilt afterwards.
- Stops chasing people who aren't choosing them.
- Can tell the difference between chemistry and familiar chaos.
- Feels safe receiving consistency.
- Handles conflict without shutting down, exploding or abandoning themselves.
- Stops needing everyone else to approve of their decisions.
And genuinely believes:
"I am worthy of a really, really good life."
And over the next 12 months, that's what you're going to get.
And This Will Probably Change Far More Than Your Love Life.
The beliefs causing problems in your relationships don't just stay on Hinge.
If you're terrified of rejection in love, you may also be frightened to put yourself forward at work.
If you struggle to say no to someone you're dating, you might struggle to say no to friends, family, clients or colleagues.
If you don't trust yourself choosing a partner, there's a good chance you're second-guessing yourself everywhere else too.
If you don't believe you're worthy of receiving love, where else are you settling for less?
So bring all of it. Not just the dating. The career move, the friendship that's gone one-sided, the business idea you've told no one about.
Because I don't coach your dating profile.
I coach you.
Their Stories Could Be Yours.
So, What Do You Actually Get For Your Year Inside HLA?
Quite a lot, actually.
Because I don't want Healthy Love Academy to be another programme you buy, binge for three weeks and then forget about.
For 12 months, you have somewhere to bring your actual life while it's happening.
💎 Weekly Live Mastermind Coaching With Me
This is the heart of Healthy Love Academy.
Every single week, we work on what's actually happening in your life.
The person you've started dating.
The boundary you're scared to hold.
The ex who has suddenly reappeared.
The conversation you're avoiding.
The opportunity you're talking yourself out of.
The family member who knows exactly which button to press.
You don't have to wait until we reach the "right module."
Your life becomes the curriculum.
💎 Your Personal Healthy Love Roadmap
You're not joining HLA and being told to start at Module One with everybody else.
We'll look at your patterns, your relationships, your confidence, your boundaries, your nervous system, where you're getting stuck and where you actually want your life to go.
Then we'll work out what you need to work on.
Because you are not everybody else.
💎 Access To My Entire Coaching Library
During your year, you get access to my programmes, trainings and resources covering things like:
Self-love. Boundaries. Rejection. Confidence.
Nervous system regulation. Relationship skills.
Dating. Communication.
Healing old patterns. Learning to trust yourself again.
Plus new programmes and trainings I create while you're inside HLA.
And no, I'm not expecting you to consume all of it.
More information isn't what you need.
I'll help you identify the right work at the right time.
💎 Private Support With Me
Some things aren't group-call conversations.
So throughout your year, you'll have private touchpoints with me for the things that need a quieter room.
Sometimes we need to stop talking generally and look specifically at you.
💎 Support When Real Life Actually Happens
Because annoyingly, your triggers don't check my Zoom calendar first.
The text comes in on Tuesday.
The date happens on Friday.
Your ex pops up on Sunday night.
Your boss pisses you off at 10:14 Wednesday morning.
You'll have support and tools between our sessions, including Sam AI, so you're not just learning this stuff when you're sitting on a coaching call.
You're practising it while life is actually happening.
💎 A Small, Proper Mastermind Community
Not 150 people on a Zoom call.
Not a Facebook group where nobody knows who anybody is.
HLA is intentionally small because I want to know you, and I want the people around you to know you too.
Over a year, these aren't just people who happen to be on the same programme.
They're the people who celebrate when you finally hold the boundary.
Who remind you what you said when you're tempted to go backwards.
Who understand why something that looks tiny to everybody else is absolutely bloody enormous for you.
💎 Coaching That Goes Beyond Dating
Bring your relationship.
Bring your business.
Bring your career.
Bring your friendships.
Bring your family.
Bring the decision you've been avoiding for six months.
Because the person who struggles to trust themselves in dating doesn't magically become somebody else when they walk into work.
I don't coach your dating profile. I coach you.
💎 12 Months To Actually Practise This
And perhaps this is the most valuable part.
Time.
Not a six-week sprint where you understand loads and then get sent back into your life to figure it out alone.
You have an entire year to learn something, try it, get it wrong, bring it to coaching, understand what happened, practise again and eventually realise:
"Bloody hell. The old me would have handled that completely differently."
That's the point.
Not knowing more.
Becoming different.
Your Year Inside Healthy Love Academy
- 12 months of coaching and support
- Weekly live mastermind coaching with me
- Personal Healthy Love roadmap
- Access to my entire programme library
- New programmes released during your year
- Private coaching touchpoints
- Between-call support and Sam AI
- Small mastermind community
- Coaching across love, relationships, confidence, career, business and life
Standard investment: £5,997
Magnetic AF invitation: £4,997
You gave yourself 21 days.
Imagine what we could change in a year.
And For 3 Of You…
We're Getting Off Zoom.
Rewire & Magnetise · Andalucía, Spain
There are some things that happen differently when you step out of your normal environment.
Four nights.
Away from work.
Away from your routine.
Away from the washing, emails, dating apps and all the other noise of everyday life.
Time to actually immerse yourself in the work we've been doing.
Deep coaching.
Nervous system work.
Connection.
Space.
Food.
Laughter.
And probably a few tears, because let's face it, it's one of my retreats.
Four nights in a private Spanish mansion where we're going to take everything you know about boundaries, self trust, rejection, attraction and healthy relationships, and become magnetic to a life you love.
Join Healthy Love Academy plus the Rewire & Magnetise Retreat for £7,197
£5,997
But I only have 3 retreat places available. Once they're gone, they're gone.
Apply For HLA + Retreat →
No. HLA is for people who want healthier patterns, whether you are dating, in a relationship, leaving one, healing after one, or noticing the same self-trust and boundary issues across your whole life.
No. You decide what you share. The group is a supportive coaching space, not forced vulnerability. And when something needs more privacy, you have private touchpoints with me.
I review your application personally. If it looks like HLA may be the right fit, we'll have a conversation. Applying is not a commitment to purchase, and if I do not think this is your right next step, I will tell you.
Yes. It is. I'm not going to insult your intelligence and pretend otherwise.
For most people, spending nearly £5,000 on themselves requires thought. It should.
But there's another number I want you to consider. What has the pattern already cost you? Not just financially.
How many months have you spent recovering from somebody you knew wasn't right?
How much time have you spent thinking about people who weren't thinking about you?
How many dates? How many dating apps deleted and reinstalled?
How many therapy sessions? Books? Courses? Readings? Coaches?
How many Sunday afternoons have disappeared because somebody didn't text back?
How many opportunities have you turned down because you didn't believe you were ready?
And perhaps the biggest one: how much of your life are you prepared to spend waiting for this to change by itself?
Because the cycle doesn't pause while you're deciding. That isn't me trying to frighten you into joining. It's simply true. Another year will pass. The question is what you want to be different when it does.
I cannot promise you another human being. Nobody ethical can.
I can't guarantee that your future husband or wife will walk into Pret at 10:42am on a Tuesday in March. And I won't pretend I can.
What I can help you change is the person making the choices.
Who you pursue. Who you tolerate. Who you walk away from.
What you believe rejection means. What you accept.
How you communicate. How you handle conflict.
Whether you trust yourself.
Whether you recognise healthy love when it arrives.
And whether you believe you're worthy of receiving it.
Those are the things we can actually work on.
Good. Then hopefully you understand yourself really well. Now let's practise doing something different.
HLA isn't about spending 12 months endlessly analysing why your parents did what they did. Understanding matters. But at some point we have to take that understanding out into the real world.
Hold the boundary. Have the conversation.
Go on the date. Walk away.
Receive the compliment. Ask for the opportunity.
Stop sending the message. Do the scary thing.
That's where change happens.
HLA is designed to fit around real life, not become another thing you fail to keep up with.
The weekly calls are recorded, the roadmap gives you one clear focus at a time, and the work happens inside the moments you are already living...dating, relationships, work, family, friendships, and boundaries.Some weeks you'll be flying. Other weeks the achievement will be getting through Tuesday without telling somebody to f*** off. 😂
Both count. This isn't about consuming as much content as possible. It's about becoming somebody different over the course of a year.
The Next 12 Months Are Going To Pass by Anyway.
You can spend them hoping the next person will be different. Trying another app. Reading another book. Understanding your attachment style a little bit better.
Promising yourself: "Next time I'll walk away sooner."
Or…
You can decide that this is the year the pattern ends. Not because somebody finally chooses you. Because you finally choose differently.
You chose yourself for 21 days. I'm now opening the door for a small number of you to choose yourself for a year.
Some of the 10 HLA places are already occupied by my existing members. When the remaining places are filled, applications will close until another place becomes available.
No fake countdown timer.
No pretending there are "2 places left!!!" for the next six months.
Ten people. Because that's how I want to coach.
If you think one of those places might be yours…
Apply. We'll work out together whether it should be.
Apply For Healthy Love Academy →12 months · Weekly mastermind coaching · Personal roadmap · Private support · All programmes · Community
Magnetic AF invitation: £4,997
Standard investment £5,997.
Want to join us in Spain too?
3 Rewire & Magnetise retreat upgrades available.
Apply For HLA + Retreat →An application is not a commitment to purchase. It's simply the first conversation.
At The Healthy Love Academy, we believe in transparency. While many participants find value, individual results vary. We cannot guarantee you will find love or experience specific changes. Outcomes depend on your personal effort and unique circumstances. This information is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional mental health advice.
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