From Heartbroken to Healthy relationship
Have you ever walked away from a relationship asking yourself: "Why do I keep doing this?"
Where you've given everything, your time, your energy, your heart and committed completely for it to...
end the same way it always has: broken trust, shattered confidence, and have your heart broken again?
Most single people think the problem is who they're choosing.
Here's what I've learned after 11 years working with abuse survivors, perpetrators, and people trapped in toxic cycles (and living through several myself):
It isn't that you should have "known better" or that all people/dating/relationships are terrible.
It's your nervous system
Your Nervous System Is Running the Show
When a relationship ends (especially a painful one) those feelings don't just disappear.
The confusion (where did it all go wrong?), the sadness (even when they hurt you), the anxiety (to ever try again)... they all get stored in your nervous system.
Your nervous system records everything:
how you felt, what you saw, what you heard, even the smell of their aftershave (seriously—I've had clients tell me all their exes wore the same aftershave) and even the taste from those experiences.
And the truth is...
your nervous system mistakes familiarity for safety.
So if chaos, inconsistency, or emotional unavailability is what you've lived before, your body will recognise those same traits (and behaviours, looks, sounds, smells) in a new person and signal: "This feels right. We have chemistry."
Even when logically this doesn't make sense.
Similar to brushing your teeth:
You do it automatically because you've done it a million times before. And even if someone told you brushing your teeth wasn't safe, you'd ignore them....
even with a thousand facts proving it wasn't safe. You'd still keep brushing.
Just like fast food.
Everyone knows it's bad for them. But they still eat it. Why?
Because familiarity overrides logic.
(no judgement, I eat it too!)
This is why you've met people who were "perfect on paper"...
calm, kind, successful, supportive and yet you felt nothing.
Or worse, you thought they were boring.
And then someone chaotic walks in, someone with a history of hurt, and they give you butterflies.
Because your nervous system is recognising chaos as safety. All because it knows you've survived it before.
What previous graduates have said:
"I saw the program and didn't sign up the first time.
I spent the next 6 months kicking myself, so once I joined the program, I went all in. Within a week, I felt more confident with myself, at work, with friends."
Nina
I was scared I was going to, be alone forever. I was terrified of relationships and Sam showed me how to move on from it. I’m 6 months into a relationship with an amazing woman and I think this is it!
George
✨ Your story could be next.
Join hundreds of others who’ve healed their nervous systems and found healthy, grounded love.
So How Do You Change This?
You don't fix this problem with logic. You don't journal it away. And you certainly don't "just try harder."
We heal your nervous system so that safety stops feeling boring and chaos stops feeling like home.
And that's exactly what we do inside The Healthy Love Academy.
Imagine
waking up each morning with a deep, unshakeable knowing that you are wonderful.
No more obsessing over texts. No more doubting yourself after dates. No more shrinking yourself to keep someone interested.
Imagine going on a date and thinking: "If this isn't right, that's okay. It doesn't mean anything about me or my future."
And then imagine finally meeting that person
the one who still gives you sparks when you brush against each other, even after 10 years.
The one you can be 100% yourself with, flaws and all.
Your best friend, your life partner, your biggest supporter... who also happens to be great in bed.
Can you picture it?
Can you hear the sound of your knives and forks as you sit together at dinner after a wonderful day?
Can you feel their warm skin next to yours as you wake up in the morning, with the deep knowing that you are safe with this person, because they won't break your heart or your trust?
Can you see it?
It all begins with healing your nervous system.
How Do I Know This Works?
Because I did it myself.
After years of toxic relationships, self-blame, and wondering what was wrong with me, I learned how to rewire my nervous system.
And everything changed.
Now I teach others to do the same. And the results speak for themselves.
Join HLA and change verything!What my previous clients said:
“When I healed my nervous system, calm love stopped feeling boring and started feeling safe. That’s when I met my husband and it instantly felt completely different from every relationship I'd ever had.”
Sian
Meet Sam Morris
Hey, I'm Sam Morris, and I've spent the last 11 years empowering people to overcome deep-rooted relationship issues by healing the root cause...
the nervous system.
As a former Probation Officer, I've worked with some of the most high-risk perpetrators and victims of extreme violence. I bring not only knowledge, training, and expertise, but real-life solutions.
Why? Because I was once trapped in this cycle of toxic relationships myself.
And through the exact processes I teach, I learned how to fall in love with myself first so that I could fall in love with my dream person. (and I did!)
And now, I'm here to show you how to do the same.
Show me how Sam!
Here's What Healing Your Nervous System Actually Looks Like:
✨ My client who wore baggy jeans for the first time in her life because she finally had the confidence to do that.
✨ The woman who said "no" to her new partner early on because she knew if she said yes the first time, it would set a pattern that she didn't want.
✨ The single mum who set boundaries with her ex, so that they could co-parent without drama or guilt.
✨ The professional who stopped checking her phone 47 times a day waiting for a text because she finally trusted herself more than she needed his validation.
✨ The woman who walked away from a situationship after 6 weeks instead of 6 months because she could finally feel the difference between chemistry and safety
This isn't theory. This is what happens when your body learns what safety actually feels like.
Introducing:
The Healthy Love Academy
A 12-week live experience to rewire your nervous system, rebuild self-trust, and attract emotionally safe love.
🌿 30 day Nervous system reset - (normally £497)
So you can stop being attracted to chaos and start attracting calm.
🌿 12 Live Group Coaching Calls
Where we tackle real problems in real time, based on what YOU'RE experiencing.
Each live session is like getting a £300 1-1 session
🌿Emotional Regulation - Learn how to calm your body, regulate your emotions and stop being hijacked by any negative emotion.
So that you can stop spiraling after dates and get back to peace within minutes
🌿Rewiring beliefs and reclaiming your identity - Discover how to shift the subconscious patterns that keep you being attracted to the same kind of relationships. So that you can say no without guilt and trust yourself again
🌿Heal any codependancy and people pleasing traits - Let go of the need to earn love or over give to be chosen and learnt he ability to set boundaries that you stick to.
🌿Create a vision for what healthy love looks like for you - Map out your next chapter: How you want to feel, how you want to love and be loved. So that you can step into the person who attracts emotionally safe, secure and deeply fulfilling relationships.
🌿 Navigate conflict and communication - Stop shutting down or ever having to walk on eggshells again and learn how to express your needs clearly, handle any difficult conversations calmly so that you can create safe emotional connections.
🌿 Lifetime Access to All Trainings
So you can revisit anytime you need support
Total Value: £5,000+
Your Investment: £997 (or payment plan available)
This program is for you if:
- You keep attracting the same type of person (just with a different face)
- You lose yourself in relationships trying to keep someone around
- "Healthy" people feel boring, but chaotic people give you butterflies
- You're ready to do the deeper work, not just learn dating tactics
- You're willing to show up and commit to healing
This program is NOT for you if:
- You want quick fixes or dating scripts
- You're not ready to look at your patterns honestly
- You're looking for therapy (this is transformational coaching)
What previous clients have said:
"I finally realised why I was attracting shit men and learnt how to change who I was attracted to in the first place. I'm still single right now, but dating with purpose, knowing I will find someone who loves me as much as I do" - Kiera
Be like Kiera and join HLA!
EXCLUSIVE BONUSES When You Join Today
🎁 Red flag Radar toolkit (£500 value)
Learn the red flags I've discovered from working with 100's of domestic abuse perpetrators, so that you never have to second guess yourself again.
🎁Red flag Bot (£1000 value)
Never have to question yourself again, because I've trained a handy in your pocket bot that will tell you if a behaviour is a red flag or not.
🎁Belief busting bot (Value £1000)
Completely break down those beliefs and create new ones so that these beliefs no longer hold you back.
⏳ Doors are open now – don’t wait another six months to break free from old patterns.
Join Now – Start Healing Your Nervous System Today
Here's What This Is Really Worth
I want to be honest with you.
My 1-1 coaching sessions cost £350 each. And some clients have told me they'd pay 10 times that amount to finally break free from their relationship patterns and feel good about themselves again.
Traditional therapy could cost you thousands of pounds over years with no guarantee of transformation.
And some other dating coaches charge £10,000 for a single day of coaching.
The Healthy Love Academy, with all the modules, live coaching, and bonuses, is worth well over £5,000.
But I didn't create this program to put it out of reach.
I created it because I know what it's like to feel stuck, to wonder if you'll ever find healthy love, to lose yourself over and over again.
Yes I'm ready!
Ready to transform?
Healthy Love Academy isn't therapy, it's a transformation.
And it's for single people who are ready to make a change to their love life and show up for themselves.
The doors are now open!
I only open the doors a few times a year, which means if you wait:
You'll stay stuck in the pain, the anxiety and the same cycles of being attracted to people who treat you badly until at least 2026.
You'll be starting another year avoiding, second guessing, self sabotaging and looking for quick dating fixes that don't address the problem.
So if you know this is the work you need to do, why suffer longer than you need?
Join HLA today and start your transformation and begin 2026 as a completely new healed confident you.
My No-Refund Policy (And Why It Matters)
This program isn’t for people who want to stay stuck.
It’s for people who are ready to show up for themselves fully.
This program is designed for those who are ready to:
- Stop attracting and being attracted to emotionally unavailable partners
- Regulate their nervous system
- Set clear boundaries without guilt
- Choose partners from a place of safety, not excitement
- Date consciously and with true self-worth
That’s why we don’t offer refunds, because healing starts with commitment.
And I’m fully committed to supporting your transformation, every step of the way.
If you're done settling and ready to create real, aligned love...
then this is your path!
I'm ready!
Meet others
who found emotional safety and true intimacy through nervous system regulation.
Let's talk about why this is one of the most important investments you'll ever make in yourself.
Think about the last time you made a life-changing decision.
How many years have you spent trapped in the same toxic relationship patterns?
How much emotional energy have you wasted chasing unavailable partners, blaming yourself, and feeling like love just isn't meant for you?
When something is important enough, like breaking free from a cycle of heartbreak, price becomes secondary to the transformation it offers.
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This isn't just another program, it's a nervous system recalibration, a belief rewiring, and an identity upgrade that will create ripple effects across every area of your life.
This isn't just an expense...
it's an investment in yourself.
When you heal the version of you that keeps repeating these unhealthy patterns, you don't just get love.
You get your power back.
You'll save years of therapy, dating disappointments, and emotional turmoil.
You'll learn to choose love consciously, attract emotionally healthy partners, and make bold, aligned decisions in every area of your life.
The real cost isn't the cost of HLA.
The real cost is staying stuck in the same painful patterns, believing you're somehow broken, and continuing to chase love from a place of fear and desperation.
Are you ready to invest in yourself and finally heal and break free from these patterns?
Yes!So now, it's time for you to make a choice.
You Have Two Choices Right Now:
Choice #1: Stay Where You Are
Continue the same patterns. Keep attracting and being attracted to the same types. Still wondering why love always feels just out of reach. And watch years pass by while your hope slowly fades more and more.
Because if you choose nothing, nothing changes.
or
Choice #2: Take Action Today
Start regulating your nervous system. Break free from any past patterns.
And open yourself up to finding the love you deserve, without losing yourself in the process.
The people who find lasting love aren't the ones who keep doing the same things. They're the ones brave enough to try a different approach.
Your Chance to Is Right Now!
⏳ This isn't about another dating hack or quick fix.
🔥 This is about healing the root cause so that you never repeat these patterns again.
💪 You CAN create the love life you deserve.
The only thing standing between you and a transformative relationship is the decision you make today.
Join the Healthy Love Academy today and start healing your nervous system, rebuilding self-trust, and attracting love that finally feels safe.
Healthy Love Academy Investment options
Healthy Love Academy vs Super VIP Immersion
Healthy Love Academy
- ✅ Nervous System Reset (30 Days)
- ✅ Core Curriculum: Beliefs, Emotions, Boundaries, Self-Love
- ✅ Group Coaching Calls
- ✅ Supportive Healing Community
- ✅ Emotional Regulation Toolkit (£497)
- ✅ Belief Busting Bot (£1,000)
- ❌ Year-Long 1:1 Mentorship (£15,600)
- ❌ Unlimited WhatsApp Support (£2,000+)
- ❌ Nervous System Soothing Toolkit (£197)
- ❌ "Dating While Regulated" Workbook (£197)
- ❌ Red Flag Toolkit (£497)
- ❌ Wing-Woman Pre/Post Date Coaching (£2,000+)
- ❌ Love Library (£297)
- ❌ 7-Night Bali Retreat with Sam (£15,650)
PAYMENT PLAN OPTION
Super VIP Immersion
Only 1 spot available- ✅ Nervous System Reset (30 Days)
- ✅ Core Curriculum: Beliefs, Emotions, Boundaries, Self-Love
- ✅ Group Coaching Calls
- ✅ Supportive Healing Community
- ✅ Emotional Regulation Toolkit (£497)
- ✅ Belief Busting Bot (£1,000)
- ✅ Year-Long 1:1 Mentorship (£15,600)
- ✅ Unlimited WhatsApp Support (£2,000+)
- ✅ Nervous System Soothing Toolkit (£197)
- ✅ "Dating While Regulated" Workbook (£197)
- ✅ Red Flag Toolkit (£497)
- ✅ Wing-Woman Pre/Post Date Coaching (£2,000+)
- ✅ Love Library (£297)
- ✅ 7-Night Bali Retreat with Sam (Accommodation, meals, healing activities, workshops) (£15,650)
Got Questions? Your path to healing starts here!